Eid, Birthdays and Weddings

After a long month of fasting it was once again time to celebrate Eid, the day which marks the end of 29 or 30 days of fasting upon the sighting of a new moon. I won’t lie. The days were long and some days were tiring in the heat but there’s a always a brilliant kind of togetherness and bonding that always emerges out of this month. In my family, in contrast to the calm month, Eid is always a crazy affair. We always end up rushing around the inlaws, friends and then my family to see everyone. The food is always pretty awesome and it’s always great to try to talk to everyone all at once, a bit too loudly and watch the kids go slightly nuts.

Little Z is always slightly dubious and shy at the huge family gatherings. Everyone simultaneously trying to say hello to him and commenting on how he’s grown since the last time always has him burrowing his face into one of our laps. He eventually gets into the swing of things and throws himself into all the festivities.

As a close cousin gets married in a couple of weeks, and two others turn 18, it was an ideal time to help out with last minute favour box packing and having some very birthday cake. It was like Zs most perfect day ever. These are just some of the reasons why…

1) Stealing Grandmas walking stick in order to swing it about and pretend it was some kind of sword. It had to be confiscated after he started swinging it around his head for fear of kneecapping guests.

2) Hearing whispers of a surprise birthday cake, promptly getting very excited and then announcing to everyone that everyone was going to have a party. One of his many grandmas tried to persuade him several times to keep it very very quiet.

3) Eventually realising the birthday cake was a secret and annoying loudly to a few people that there was birthday cake but it was a SECRET.

4) Having a turn at blowing out candles on the birthday cake after the surprised pair of 18 year olds.

5) Entertaining a small group of 50 something adults with a story of how his Nani fell down a mountain. I’m not sure where or how he’s come up with that one. I need to have a think about mountain related CBeebies programmes.

6) Trying to eat as much cake as he could as a substitute for proper food.

7) Finally making peace with the neighbourhood cat after being scratched by one a year ago on holiday. Then not leaving it alone.

32 thoughts on “Eid, Birthdays and Weddings”

  1. Kids’ inability to keep secrets can be infuriating at times, can’t it? You just can’t win – the more you make a big thing out of it, the more likely they are to blurt it out. Glad to see Z got stuck in and enjoyed it all, though.
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  2. Gorgeous boy and wow what a month you’ve had, love that he nicked the walking stick (sounds like Alexander) and making peace with the cat sounds like a brave feat-well done him…I want to substitute food for cake-wait I’ve done that all month and can barely get into my clothes. Seriously need to fast myself right now. Loved this post x
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  3. wow – an entire month of fasting, that must be so tough, especially in this heat! That feast must have been a long time coming! lol ๐Ÿ˜‰ Kids are so cheeky at big family gatherings aren’t they! Too many places to hide and opportunities for mischief I say! lol xx
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  4. Sounds so funny, I can just imagine all his antics with all the family around, it will be lovely for him to have these memories when he is older. Hope you had a fabulous Eid, you must have been ready for some celebrations after it being such a warm month x
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